Every twenty-something goes through an experimental phase as some would call it, but what it its not a phase what if its an actual desire? Our generation is much more open minded to same-sex love , but ask our parents , aunts , grandparents and most likely its used as the number 1 abomination to the lord.
They pass it off as a phase , sort of like we are running around with a batman cape on for weeks straight. Being bi, gay , transsexual or transgender is not a phase its a preference , its a love , its a way of life. Every single person on this planet deserves happiness and fulfillment its basic human rights. Same Sex , Different Color none of that matters. Love is BLIND! , we should be as well.
When I was 18 I answered a TBH on facebook from someone who I knew of but not exactly known.
That TBH changed my views, as well as my life in so many ways.
This crazy 5'2 nubian queen as she would say, stole my heart in every way possible.
After the relationship I was in before , I thought love was impossible.
She showed me so many things that I overlooked in life.
5 months into our relationship , I came out to my friends who thankfully was all very supportive.
The 2 months later my parents found out, as well as the rest of my entire family.
My father , brothers and pretty much that whole side of the family was fine with whatever made me happy:)
My Mother and her side of the family however kicked me out on to the streets , took everything I ever had in my life , and disowned me. I was completely devastated to no end.
I had a choice to make at that moment , Return home as if it was a mistake and beg for forgiveness for something that is not wrong, or choose to be with the person who gave my day purpose. I choose Happiness.
We slept in my car for months , we struggled to have meals , we was homeless.
Finally a few months went by and we got an apartment , our first place.
It was amazing, not only the experience I had but the moments that I shared with her.
She was my rock , my world and my everything , how could someone say that wasn't
real love when it felt just like it?
She taught me how to love again after being shattered, and how to laugh even at myself sometimes.
The relationship ended up not working out. but we remain great friends who would stop the world for one another. We cherish our silly moments and our serious ones when we thought the whole world was against a love that was so precious.
Years later , Im in a relationship with an amazing guy who would do anything for me and I do love him, but females hold a special place in my heart always, That will never go away. Love of any kind is not a phase, its real in that moment its as real as the grass that grows and nobody can take that away.
I am Bi and I am proud.
Dont allow anyone to ever take happiness away from you.
Coming out is an awesome thing, to finally be so content with yourself , you want the whole world to know.
Nobody has the right to tell you that its wrong to love who you love.
I have this theory on love, you will love many people in your life who will teach you great things.
These people will show you what life is about , they will teach you about yourself.
Most importantly , a lot of the relationships will end and thats okay because you will leave the relationship with more than you had when you entered. Love is forever , relationships are not. The relationship between two people can end that just means its time to go down separate roads but the love thats shared is unique and will never be felt again with other people, that love lasts forever. Everytime you fall in love with someone else , a different love is felt as you have different experiences and different lessons are learned. We have to love to find out more about ourselves. You will have many loves in your life , until you met someone who has learned just as much as you and not only will that love , but that relationship will never end. We all just walk hand and hand down the journey of life together.
Love is blind , not a phase.
Iamchiannexoxo
They pass it off as a phase , sort of like we are running around with a batman cape on for weeks straight. Being bi, gay , transsexual or transgender is not a phase its a preference , its a love , its a way of life. Every single person on this planet deserves happiness and fulfillment its basic human rights. Same Sex , Different Color none of that matters. Love is BLIND! , we should be as well.
When I was 18 I answered a TBH on facebook from someone who I knew of but not exactly known.
That TBH changed my views, as well as my life in so many ways.
This crazy 5'2 nubian queen as she would say, stole my heart in every way possible.
After the relationship I was in before , I thought love was impossible.
She showed me so many things that I overlooked in life.
5 months into our relationship , I came out to my friends who thankfully was all very supportive.
The 2 months later my parents found out, as well as the rest of my entire family.
My father , brothers and pretty much that whole side of the family was fine with whatever made me happy:)
My Mother and her side of the family however kicked me out on to the streets , took everything I ever had in my life , and disowned me. I was completely devastated to no end.
I had a choice to make at that moment , Return home as if it was a mistake and beg for forgiveness for something that is not wrong, or choose to be with the person who gave my day purpose. I choose Happiness.
We slept in my car for months , we struggled to have meals , we was homeless.
Finally a few months went by and we got an apartment , our first place.
It was amazing, not only the experience I had but the moments that I shared with her.
She was my rock , my world and my everything , how could someone say that wasn't
real love when it felt just like it?
She taught me how to love again after being shattered, and how to laugh even at myself sometimes.
The relationship ended up not working out. but we remain great friends who would stop the world for one another. We cherish our silly moments and our serious ones when we thought the whole world was against a love that was so precious.
Years later , Im in a relationship with an amazing guy who would do anything for me and I do love him, but females hold a special place in my heart always, That will never go away. Love of any kind is not a phase, its real in that moment its as real as the grass that grows and nobody can take that away.
I am Bi and I am proud.
Dont allow anyone to ever take happiness away from you.
Coming out is an awesome thing, to finally be so content with yourself , you want the whole world to know.
Nobody has the right to tell you that its wrong to love who you love.
I have this theory on love, you will love many people in your life who will teach you great things.
These people will show you what life is about , they will teach you about yourself.
Most importantly , a lot of the relationships will end and thats okay because you will leave the relationship with more than you had when you entered. Love is forever , relationships are not. The relationship between two people can end that just means its time to go down separate roads but the love thats shared is unique and will never be felt again with other people, that love lasts forever. Everytime you fall in love with someone else , a different love is felt as you have different experiences and different lessons are learned. We have to love to find out more about ourselves. You will have many loves in your life , until you met someone who has learned just as much as you and not only will that love , but that relationship will never end. We all just walk hand and hand down the journey of life together.
Love is blind , not a phase.
Iamchiannexoxo